Wednesday 23 October 2013

"I WAS GANG-RAPED TWICE BY 9 MEN" - BUNMI SARAH SOBOWALE, SHARES HEARTBREAKING STORY



"I WAS GANG-RAPED TWICE BY 9 MEN" - BUNMI SARAH SOBOWALE, SHARES HEARTBREAKING STORY 

 In a Live tweet chat organized by Walk Against RAPE, a rape survivor, Bunmi Sarah Sobowale, shared a touching, sad, horrific but true life rape story on twitter yesterday [Oct. 20].
Bunmi, who is in her 30s stated she had been gang-raped twice – first time by a male friend she trusted and second time by a guy who was interested in dating her.

Read her shocking tweets below:

#Livetweetchatwith a Rape Survivor @bunmicakeright about now! ask questions with #Breakingthesilence
— Walk Against RAPE (@Walk_RapeNG) October 20,  2013

Hello TweetVilla.... #breakingthesilence
— Bunmi sarah Sobowale (@Bunmicake) October 20, 2013

My name is Bunm,I am a Rape survivor by Gods grace,if not for God. #breakingthesilence @estherijewere
— Bunmi sarah Sobowale (@Bunmicake) October 20, 2013

Oh God me the GRACE and COURAGE to do this in jesus name. @Walk_RapeNG @estherijewere... #breakingthesilence
— Bunmi sarah Sobowale (@Bunmicake) October 20, 2013

I am in my 30s. @Walk_RapeNG @estherijewere... #breakingthesilence
— Bunmi sarah Sobowale (@Bunmicake) October 20, 2013

Thank you @Walk_RapeNGfor giving me this opportunity,I have been a victim of abuse&rape,but I survived it. @Walk_RapeNG. #breakingthesilence
— Bunmi sarah Sobowale (@Bunmicake) October 20, 2013

Going down memory lane,it wasn't easy,I can't continue 2keep this,God told me to PUSH IT OUT of me&be FREE. @Walk_RapeNG. #breakingthesilence
— Bunmi sarah Sobowale (@Bunmicake) October 20, 2013

Was abuse when I was young by an houseboy,it was terrible,after dat by my fathers friend too,dat was hell. @Walk_RapeNG. #breakingthesilence
— Bunmi sarah Sobowale (@Bunmicake) October 20, 2013

As if that was not enough,Rape was added,that was so horrific,omg...how I did not die,I don't no till 2day. @Walk_RapeNG. #breakingthesilence
— Bunmi sarah Sobowale (@Bunmicake) October 20, 2013

I have had experience of being rape twice,D 1st I had a friend,just a friend,he set me up to be Rape. @Walk_RapeNG. #breakingthesilence
— Bunmi sarah Sobowale (@Bunmicake) October 20, 2013

He set me up to be RAPE by 2 of his friends,with him making 3.I was raped during my period,it was hell,omg. @Walk_RapeNG. #breakingthesilence
— Bunmi sarah Sobowale (@Bunmicake) October 20, 2013

We went to his house&we were talking,when I notice 2 of his friend walked in,one I know,d other I don't. @Walk_RapeNG. #breakingthesilence
— Bunmi sarah Sobowale (@Bunmicake) October 20, 2013

He was my friend,I trusted him,I neva no he cld do what he did.He called me in 2 come check out sum pics. @Walk_RapeNG. #breakingthesilence
— Bunmi sarah Sobowale (@Bunmicake) October 20, 2013

I ran 2 checkout d pics,not knowing evil was awaiting me.He showed me d pix,when suddenly my mouth wz gag. @Walk_RapeNG. #breakingthesilence
— Bunmi sarah Sobowale (@Bunmicake) October 20, 2013

I ran 2 checkout d pics,not knowing evil was awaiting me.He showed me d pix,when suddenly my mouth wz gag. @Walk_RapeNG. #breakingthesilence
— Bunmi sarah Sobowale (@Bunmicake) October 20, 2013

He pushed me down,slapped me&told me to co-operate&starting removing my clothes&d 3 of them RAPED me badly. @Walk_RapeNG. #breakingthesilence
— Bunmi sarah Sobowale (@Bunmicake) October 20, 2013

It was terrible that's all I can say,my clothes were stained with blood,cos I was on my period.@Walk_Rape. #breakingthesilence
— Bunmi sarah Sobowale (@Bunmicake) October 20, 2013

I begged him to remember our friendship,it was like I was seeing a devil.Raping me on my period!!! OMG!@Walk_RapeNG.# #breakingthesilence
— Bunmi sarah Sobowale (@Bunmicake) October 20, 2013

After they were done,he started apologising to me,I went in to wash my clothes&brokedown crying. @Walk_RapeNG. #breakingthesilence
— Bunmi sarah Sobowale (@Bunmicake) October 20, 2013

I wash d clothes&surmoned up courage&curse dem&cried out&left.On my way home,was almost knockdown by a car. @Walk_RapeNG. #breakingthesilence
— Bunmi sarah Sobowale (@Bunmicake) October 20, 2013

Who cares if I was knocked down,I wanted to die,I wonder that day y that car dit knock me down. @Walk_RapeNG. #breakingthesilence
— Bunmi sarah Sobowale (@Bunmicake) October 20, 2013

Got home,entered my room&just slept off like that,I cldnt sleep,had nightmares.Took overdose to take me away.@Walk_Rape. #breakingthesilence
— Bunmi sarah Sobowale (@Bunmicake) October 20, 2013

But I found out I woke up the next day,I became angry with&at myself,cos I wanted to dieeeeeee. @Walk_RapeNG. #breakingthesilence
— Bunmi sarah Sobowale (@Bunmicake) October 20, 2013

I stayed away from that lesson for some months.And went back to face my shame. @Walk_RapeNG. #breakingthesilence
— Bunmi sarah Sobowale (@Bunmicake) October 20, 2013

Two of them saw me&came postrating to me to forgive them,I told them I ve,but dat he stop being my friend. @Walk_RapeNG. #breakingthesilence
— Bunmi sarah Sobowale (@Bunmicake) October 20, 2013

And I avoided him like a rat. @Walk_RapeNG.. #breakingthesilence
— Bunmi sarah Sobowale (@Bunmicake) October 20, 2013

As if that was not enough,another rape incident happen,this one was also by a friend asking me out. @Walk_RapeNG.. #breakingthesilence
— Bunmi sarah Sobowale (@Bunmicake) October 20, 2013

Just becos I said I wasn't going 2 go out with me.He set me up to be RAPE by 5 of his friend,him making 6. @Walk_RapeNG.. #breakingthesilence
— Bunmi sarah Sobowale (@Bunmicake) October 20, 2013

This one was HORRIFIC,I thought I was going to die,"TheHeartOfmenIsMenIsWicked"..@Walk_Rape.. #breakingthesilence
— Bunmi sarah Sobowale (@Bunmicake) October 20, 2013

Can we postpone this please @estherijewere @Walk_RapeNGcan't do this anymore plsssss. #breakingthesilence
— Bunmi sarah Sobowale (@Bunmicake) October 20, 2013

Let people send there question,I will answer them much later plsss.Pleas you all bear with me. @Walk_RapeNG.. #breakingthesilence
— Bunmi sarah Sobowale (@Bunmicake) October 20, 2013

During the live tweet, twitter users were asked to ask Bunmi questions using hastag #Breakingthesilence…some reactions below:
Special thanks to @bunmicakefor coming out boldly, for SPEAKING UP, and BREAKING THE SILENCE on RAPE! we will continue next week.
— Walk Against RAPE (@Walk_RapeNG) October 20,  2013

AMEN!" @ApostleEriOluwa: @bunmicakein the name of Jesus you will never lack reasons to testify to God's goodness in your life. Bless you!"
— Bunmi sarah Sobowale (@Bunmicake) October 20, 2013

BigHugss!Thanks!" @EliSundayAnne: @Bunmicake @Walk_RapeNGSarah you're a great woman. Hugs from Italy & Oman"
— Bunmi sarah Sobowale (@Bunmicake) October 20, 2013

It takes a healed heart to share what @Bunmicakejust shared now on #breakingthesilencecc... @estherijewere @Walk_RapeNG. So touching!
— Grace Festus-Alao (@Grace_Festus) October 20,  2013

@BunmicakeMay God comfort u, make u strong, set u in2 family & give u a new song 2 sing. His eternal purpose fulfilled. #breakingthesilence
— Seun (@SeunAfuwape) October 20, 2013

@BunmicakeGod bless u for sharing ur story. You are an aroma of grace.
— Bright Ephraim Bob (@BobEphraim) October 20,  2013

Madam, I feel so sad reading about what you went through....but were any of these men punished for their crime? @Bunmicake
— Kareemah (@Rinsola_Abiola) October 20, 2013

@BunmicakeWhen these things happen, we are made to doubt so many things and feel helpless and hopeless...but u came out strong. ur a winner
— Kareemah (@Rinsola_Abiola) October 20, 2013

@SuperGirlTimidi @Bunmicake #breakingthesilenceI however find the idea of an apology by the culprit quite insulting. Did they go to jail?
— olabode (@omolere) October  20, 2013

@BunmicakeAm so sorry about all you went through. Rape is no joke at all. Those guys should be arrested. You are so brave and strong.
— Bello Barakah T. (@Bahrahkah) October 20, 2013

My bestie was raped at age 6,and i fell in love with her the more cz i strongly blve she is stil a virgin @Bunmicake
— Allen's Talk (@allenzito) October 20, 2013

@Bunmicakeyou're a true Survivor and an inspiration to many. I'm sorry about your ordeals. No one deserves such. HUGS
— Buki O. (@survivor17) October  20, 2013

@Bunmicakejust read the story ! And people wonder why women are uptight! i hope those guys get jailed !
— Oyinlola (@lollybubbles) October 20, 2013

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